Do We Really Value the Truth? Preparing for November 6th

How much do we truly value the truth?  Sure we talk about it, we complain about it when we don’t get it, we have even gone to war over the ideal of it, and destroyed relationships over the lack of it, but do we really value the truth? Or, like some much of our lives, is it just a false value, a mythical thing, a posit that while we are willing to use the lack of it to our own advantage, we never expect to actually apply it to ourselves.

How often have you been told, or professed to others, that you would not have gotten in trouble if you had just told the truth.  Children hear this invective from their parents all the time—starting at a very early age. “I won’t get mad if you get an “F” in hopscotch just as long as you tell me the truth!”  Children learn early on that to follow this advice is simply a path to self-perpetuated disaster. They learn that while mom and dad may say that they want the truth while they are in the middle of being angry over the grade and the lie, it is still the bad grade that rules this equation.

The first time the poor kid follows the advice and comes clean, they learn what real truth is, that it is the grade, not the lie, which got mom and dad upset, and the punishment, is still the same.  The truth they learn is that telling the truth changes naught. Once this happens, then little Mary or Johnny revert to obfuscation and equivocation.  It is simply survival instinct at work.

Thou shalt not lie, is a phrase drilled in to almost all of us from a very early age. Most often, those doing the drilling lie routinely multiple times a day. While we do not know that they, in fact, routinely lie at the time they are doing the drilling, that is one of the few truths we often discern very early.

To accommodate this dichotomy we have created numerous gradations of lies—some socially acceptable and others beyond the pale. The list includes nuanced measures of our prevarications like: the little white lie, the “that’s in a bit of a grey area” lie, the shades of grey lie, the justifiable lie, the “I don’t want to heart your feelings” lie, the naked lie, the self-serving lie, the heinous lie, and the whopper. But perhaps the most prevalent and seemingly acceptable of all is the “Politician’s Lie.”

We all lie!

No honey; your rear end does not look fat in that dress!

I have no idea what you’re talking about; I did not look at that woman with the big breasts!

Gee Boss; your one of the few people that really look great in those orange plaid golf shorts!

I swear; I know I sent that reply in e-mail before the deadline. I even turned on the read receipt thingy, but now I can’t seem to find it!

Day in and day out we lie and we rationalize all of these fabrications as just getting along, not hurting others needlessly, or protecting ourselves.

We all profess to draw a line in the gradation of prevarication, often at the point that a lie goes to foster personal gain. If asked, most of us will say that lying for personal gain is one of the worst kinds of perjurious behavior. We all agree and routinely make statements like this, yet we live our day to day lives evidencing little value for the truth. For example, we purchase products. Often the ones we buy the most are the ones that have the most inventive lies attached to them. We have had products, that so integrated into our existence that we simply just incorporate the advertising lies into our belief systems. Warner Lambert sold us Listerine based on lies for years. It took the federal government almost 100 years to get them to stop advertising it was a cure for the common cold.

We love being deceived so much; we look constantly for those products, services, and events that offer the most unbelievable claims. God forbid, if anyone exposes the lies to us—the happy consumers. We love these lies so much we may even get violent in order to preserve the myth. What? You don’t believe this? Go to a group of professional wrestling fans and tell them it’s fake! Just make sure you have on some fast shoes before you do!

If you still don’t believe this, consider politics. We so love the lies that bring us dreams of utopia, that we have developed a full time occupation for people who we will handsomely reward just for lying to us. If we value the truth so much, why do we willingly acknowledge that all politicians lie? They do! We all know that they do! And, we often elect the ones that lie to us most often, and with the most outlandish lies. We have evolved an entire professional social class of people that we pay just to lie to us.

And do you know who lies to us the most, with the most believable lies? Why, we do of course! You see, we lie to ourselves most of all. We know much of what we hear is not true, yet we willingly believe it and often propagate the same falsehoods. Maybe we simply believe that if more people believe the same thing that I believe then it might become true. Or at least, I won’t be the only fool!

Just something for us all to consider as we prepare to vote on November 6th.

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About Thomas W. Loker

Meet the Author - Thomas Loker is a Startup Consultant and Advisor at SYDK.ORG, Angel Investor, Mentor and Advisor at Keiretsu Forum & Venture-Med and an established operations guy with serial successes with startups, transitional companies and turnaround situations. He has had a long career serving in the fields of science, technology and healthcare related industries. He is an active board member in both for-profit and not-for-profit companies. Tom has written numerous articles in the areas of healthcare, technology, politics and the economy. He is currently the principal author of Health Reform 2.0: Beyond partisan divide lies pragmatic solutions – a whitepaper focused on moving beyond the partisan rhetoric of the ACA (Obamacare) to a simple, efficient, effective, accessible and affordable healthcare system. He maintains a passion for serving the underserved and has founded, supported and worked in various companies to serve the most fragile among us. Because of his expertise on the business of healthcare, he was invited to conduct multiple congressional briefings on healthcare reform in Congress, meeting with more than 100 congressional representatives. He has been a guest on HuffPost Live to talk about health care issues, and is a frequent keynote speaker on the topic for many groups and events. Prior to his latest book, The History and Evolution of Healthcare in America: The untold backstory of where we've been, where we are, and why healthcare needs more reform, Tom published “Delusional Ravings of a Lunatic Mind”—a collection of essays on healthcare, politics and their interaction with the economy, available at Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, and other bookstores. Tom's passion for Music is currently expressed by his role as VP Operations and General Manager of David Victor Presents. See www,davidvictorpresents.com to find out more. You can find Tom online at: Website: http://www.loker.com Blog: https://tloker.wordpress.com LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/thomaswloker Photography: http://www.loker.net

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